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Why I love New York

September 3rd, 2010 by admin received No Comments »

People ask me what it is about the city that attracts me. What it is that keeps making me wanna go back.
I get confused when people that actually went here ask me the question. It’s like when you are in love and somebody questions why you are with that person. You think (s)he’s perfect and why can’t everybody see that?

In the city of immigrants, you meet hardworking Mexicans that can’t speak the language but they know how to call you beautiful baby.

In the city of such diversity, you meet strangers that you have absolutely nothing in common with and you have a 35-minute conversation about the world, war, politics, religion and the purpose of life while riding the subway to work.

In the city that never sleeps, the bars are only open until 4AM.

In the city of skinny people and obese people, you have the choice between 2 slices of pizza (1400 kcal) or a large tossed salad for $5.

In the city of “fabulous”, you’ll notice how the skinny bitch with gel-nails is so occupied staring at the goth girl with the huge butt and tiny waistline – until the guy with the tight-tight shorts blocks her the view and makes her obviously uncomfortable.

In the city of “If I can make it here – I’ll make it anywhere” personalities the aspiring writer or actor  will be serving you coffee later this afternoon.

In the city of opportunities, you think you’ll look fine in a pair of calvin klein jeans, black shirt and flats at the local hotel bar – but discover that plans change and you should have reconsidered your look for the night as you’re in a cab on your way to The Plaza for a jazz night.

In the city of annoying tourists, you will meet people from other countries in the same situation as you and you will find that you actually don’t want them to go home.

In the city of love, you will see that when one door closes another one opens.

In the city of dreams, there is no limit to what you can achieve!

The list will go on forever and neither of us have that kind of time. But the few things I mentioned about is what came to mind according to the last months events.

I don’t want to think about the fact that in less than two months I’m on my way back to Denmark!

But for now … I am here. And I am. Happy!

The Red Lipstick Lady

August 12th, 2010 by admin received No Comments »

One of the things I love about New York is the possibility of experiencing something out of the ordinary every single day.

Like today:

I was waiting for Garry in Chase (The Bank) when I noticed a woman with shades, hat, red t-shirt but most of all very red lip stick covering more than just her lips. – I confess that I didn’t pay much attention to her at that time. But soon it showed that she wasn’t just a customer in a bank. She was the crazy Red Lipstick lady.

As I found it boring to wait for Garry I decided to wait outside the bank. After waiting for a few minutes he came out telling me that there was a crazy lady following him. It turned out it was the Red Lipstick Lady.

I was pretty sure he got the wrong idea even though she had been in line in front of him and now she was leaving the bank few seconds after him. As we crossed the street with her following us I decided to play a little trick to see if there really was something going on. – In the middle of the street, while crossing, I said: “Oh wait, we have to go to Barnes and Nobles” and turned around going back to the sidewalk we came from. — So did she.

We walked down 55th, crossed the street, walked into a liquor store, out again, in again. All while The Red Lips was standing outside looking in at us. We went outside again walking further down 55th with her just few feet from us. At the curbside while waiting for ‘Walk’-signal Garry had enough and told her in a strict New York Accent: “You are at the point of being annoying. I will smack you!”

She mumbled something about how tripods are annoying and followed us across the street to Barnes and Nobles. We were in there for a few minutes – returned outside – she was under a tree looking at us. While walking back towards the Liquor Store I actually thought the whole “I will smack you”-incident scared her but I thought that too soon – A second later The Red Lipstick lady were running in the middle of the street. Stopping in front of the store – facing the store. I turned around said something to Garry and the Liquor Store guy – when I turned back she was gone.

Later on the M104 bus I got the feeling that the old Chinese man across from me had a little red something in the side of his mouth.

— That’s some crazy ….

A little somethin’ somethin’ on the side!

August 8th, 2010 by admin received No Comments »

Oh oh oh! Oh!

I went for a innocent walk down Austin Street in Forest Hills today. I was just window shopping, you know, nothing seriously … Just browsing. But then I made the wrong decision – I went into Barnes and Nobles and when I saw this cute thing standing there I knew I was in trouble*… you know how it is. All of a sudden I realized that I’ve had this longing for such a long time that .. I knew I gotta have it.

So I got it.

Wanna take a look at my new baby? –> here

* acc.

Patrons of the Art.

August 7th, 2010 by admin received 2 Comments »

Today I went with www.manhattanwalkingtour.com on a tour booked by a couple from one of the more up-scale hotels in New York. They wanted a tour around the neighborhood where their hotel is located. Luckily that’s one of the things we’ve been working on recently so we were prepared.

At first glance you might think – what’s so special about 57 street area worth doing a whole tour about? There is tons of high fashion shopping possibilities and restaurants. But there is some well kept stories behind some of the residences and with Garry nothing is left unsaid.

As a result of that I got to experience some behind-the-scenes historic scenery. I went to a very prestigious gallery – one of the kinds, where you have to be buzzed in the front door. Millions and millions dollars worth hanging on the walls. I felt so emotional when seeing a real Henri Matisse up  close. When I turned around I saw a Renoir drawing.  I was amazed – could hardly breath scared of hurting some of the precious paintings.

Later we went to Ana Tzarev Gallery. I’ve been here before and I absolutely love the paintings. They are so alive – I can actually feel them on my skin. The couple from the hotel acted like they could actually afford buying one of the larger pieces with an estimated worth of $ 450.000. – I got a gratis postcard! (yep, gratis! – that word is fully understandable in a million dollar gallery!)

Another thing on the tour was the insight to the company who made the first piano as we know it today; Steinway and Sons

And also … Oh wait! This was an amazing tour – you gotta take it! So much better than me going on and on and on …

I have new-found love for this part of the City. It’s not just 5th avenue shopping and the Plaza.

The beginning of a dream

August 6th, 2010 by admin received No Comments »

So – I arrived in Newark late Monday night. After some issues at customs (yes yes, I know I’m a frequent traveler!) I met a nice ‘british dude’ in Newark Airport that I started talking tour and we realized we were going the same way. Made the trip a lot easier and interesting. We took the NJ Transit to Penn station. Only 15 bucks. Very convenient. Only had to wait 25 minutes to catch the Long Island Railroad to Forest Hills – adding another $4,50 to the bill – and around 11pm I was home! I would definitely recommend people traveling on a budget to consider  other transportation options that cabs.

After few hours of sleep my daily life began – all over again. Felt good being back! Tuesday was concierge visits. Very interesting and somewhat intimidating – in a few weeks I will have to do the concierge visits myself. Do I have what it takes?

Wednesday is my day off.I spent it going to the local supermarket. No, they don’t have rugbrød there either. Got back home after stopping by Dunkin Donuts to get m super large super iced coffee. Started watching old 70s gameshow on TV. Found the fashion and hairdues of that time ridiculous! Wanted to change channels but somehow I broke my tv. Or, well .. Can’t find any channels anymore. Oops! So decided to enjoy my AC before getting ready to go to Manhattan for Stambord.

Had a blast. A lot more people came this time that last. Saw some wellknown faces and meet a few new very interesting people that I most certainly will meet up with again! – Of course a couple of silly heads that had to tell me that I wouldn’t make it here. Danish mentality. “Don’t think you are someone special. Don’t think you have something extraordinary to offer the world – because if you do – I will judge you. And it will hurt!”

I will make it! I’ve made it this far – knowing the changes and decisions I had to face shows me that I have what it takes!

And for now I’m living a dream of freedom

Bye bye Denmark – Hello New York City

August 1st, 2010 by admin received No Comments »

Tomorrows trip is officially my 10th trip to New York! – “Happy anniversary! And congrats – you’ve spent $ 5’500 on flights to NY alone in less than four years!”

I have a very expensive hobby! :-D

I’ve enjoyed my days in Denmark spending my time with my mom, sisters and grandpa. It was nice and not as stressful as I actually imagined it would be.

The packing for three months were more or less a game.. Much more space in my suitcase so if you’re petite feel free to jump in!

I’m going to fly with Iceland Express tomorrow. I paid 60 dollars to get a window seat on front row of the plane (normally first class) let’s see if it was worth it. The ticket was cheap for this time of year ($635 ) but I have to fly into Newark which is like 3hrs from where I’m going to stay. But ok ok … I’ll survive!

I’ m going to miss my sweet friends in Denmark! I promise: We’ll kick it in November!

Until then – love you all! :-*

NY or DK?

July 30th, 2010 by admin received No Comments »

It’s a mess. What time is it out there? I’m confused. Where am I?

So apparently it’s midnight in Denmark but I’m not tired. My family, who’ve been here for the last couple of hours are sleeping and I’m like .. Up and ready to do something. They say New York is the City that never sleeps. Copenhagen is the opposite – there is no noise, no cars, no trucks collecting garbage, no people yelling in the streets. All of this is keeping me awake!

Arrh!

Today I bought a new domain – www.nydk.dk – my sister came up with the brilliant idea of abbreviation. I’ve been wanting to create a business for products that I find trendy in New York and sell them in Denmark but didn’t know what domain name to choose. NY to DK. NYDK … Ofcourse .. And also a smart way of playing with the DKNY brand. By November I will start creating that business. For now, it’s just an idea. I bought back some Sillybandz for my sister. She loves them .. Maybe I should bring them to Denmark! It’s really popular in New York – so why wouldn’t it be in Denmark as well?

Gosh! Frustrated — need to sleep,

I have a lot of things to take care of tomorrow. I have to call a dozen people and make arrangements for the next few months. I also need to figure out what I need to bring with me back to NY. Oh my … A million things in my head.

What are you doing? Wanna do something? Let’s grab a drink. – Why not? Oh. You’re sleeping? DK is boring.

I’m shocked!

July 28th, 2010 by admin received No Comments »

My return flight was almost pleasant!
Besides the fact that the plane was late but then I met a guy from Lafayette, Louisiana who was going to Cairo for work.
He has three houses and cows he uses for breeding.
He needed a shave – I looked after his bags, forgot about the security issues of never leaving yours bags unattended.
He was thankful – bought me a diet coke. 

On board the lavatory had issues which shared a very disgusting odour with the folks on the last rows (including me!)
Forgot about it when I started having a nice conversation with the guy on the seat next to me. He and his partner (and a lot of other people on board!) were going on a Gay Cruise starting in Copenhagen.

The two stewards were also gays – and so incredible fun and … well, had a good time joking around with all of them. When I finally arrived to Denmark I was beat.

Spend some hours with my family. After 30 hrs with only 3hrs of sleep I went to bed – only to get woken up an hour later by a girl talking danish in front of my window. That shocked me to such a degree that I needed to get some home cooked new danish potatoes.

Is it Thursday today?

I don’t really like shopping

July 27th, 2010 by admin received 1 Comment »

… but sometimes it happens that I meet things that pokes me on the shoulder and says: “Psst!”

Like today, I wasn’t planning to look for anything (being busy ’cause the going back and forth to DK thingy) but in Grand Central I suddenly felt a urge to take a look in the Brooklyn Industries store … Wasn’t going to buy anything until I saw this bag hanging and smiling at me. It was almost like it said: “Yes, Maria, yes .. I am your new favorite bag!” (It’s black. Of course!) After chit chatting with the handsome sales assistant I decided I had to buy my bag and take it with my home.

Later – in Grand Central again – before catching my 7 train to Times Sq I saw these incredible unique ‘souvenir’ items from Insiders1. I had a short talk with the guy that actually is a part of the team making the things. Beautiful pictures from New York (and Europe) on bags, wallets, notebooks etc, real italian leather. The prices were reasonable and even though I didn’t buy anything I got the card and will definitely go back and get me something. I’m not really a tourist anymore but I still want my things to say New York. I still want my things to say: “Hey, look at me!” I actually think the new wallet that I’ve been meaning to buy for the last two-three years will be found amongst Insiders1 products. That would make my obsessed NY-heart happy.

So …. What was I saying? Oh yeah. Shopping not my thing. Buying beautiful, beautiful things that speaks to me – That’s my thing!

Okay guys – I need to pack – Look, I did mean to pack yesterday but then this thing happened and also I had to do that other thing and you know how it is when ..

Last sunday in the Slope

July 25th, 2010 by admin received 3 Comments »

I’ve enjoyed the past 6 weeks, I found you very interesting. But it’s time to say goodbye now. In a few days it has to be over. It’s been a joy at times and dreadful at other times. The latter mostly because of the heat waves.

Staying in a room with no air condition and at first no fan almost made me wanna go cool down in the Hudson – The temperatures day and night have been rising from the low 70s (20) at night times to the low 100s (40)in the day time. Humidity ready to shoot you down from behind.

The streets in the Slope are inviting. The shopping, the dining, the bars, the 99 cent stores, the super markets, the coffee shops. I almost felt like I could stay here forever. Why do anybody need Manhattan?

I wanna dedicate a special thank you to Baba’s Deli for always welcoming me with big smiles and ‘how you doing’s in the early mornings before my commute. They always remembered I wanted my multigrain bagel toasted no butter, no nothing. And that I prefer my iced coffee large no sugar w/ nonfat milk.

I’m going to acknowledge these six weeks as a part of my transition from plain danish wanna-be-NYer to hopefully by 2011 a, inspiring danish will-be-an-official-NYer-in-ten-years. – Some people might say I’m already very inspiring – thank you thank you ;)

As much as it hurts your feeling, dear Park Slope, I will be leaving you. But let’s enjoy the last few days. You sure kn0w how to make my Sunday morning remarkable.

I know how it is to live only a few blocks from a 7-Eleven. I do that in Copenhagen. Sometimes at night time, I’ve found myself walking to the store to pick up something strong that’ll make me go to sleep.

But the 7-eleven in Park Slope – well, that one is quite amazing! After waking up 7am on a Sunday morning, with no need to fall a sleep again I figured I might as well go get coffee. I need no starbucks – ’cause 7-eleven Xtra-Large Energy Fusion Coffee no milk, no sugar, contains .. well, a lil’ something to get me through the first 4-5 hours of the day.

What can you do on a Sunday in an old Park Slope apartment? I know what I have to do but the cold Diet Snapple Peach Tea, facebook chat and this interesting blog (;)) kinda keeps me occupied.

I have AM New York, the National Enquirer and Park Slope Courier next to me. I need to read it, right? It’s like .. I HAVE TO READ IT! So the laundry, packing my bag for DK and work kinda have to wait. Wouldn’t you agree?

Also, it’s kinda hot and the coffee is kicking in .. I have a ton of excuses. Park Slope, will you ever let me go?

When I return to New York on August 2nd, I’m not going back to the Slope. My new address will be in the very beautiful Forest Hills. I’ve got a great deal on a room. It’s located in the basement of a house, has its own entrance and own bathroom.

It’s big enough to have bed, futon, armchair, closet, desk, fridge and several other furniture. I have access to wash/dryer and a kitchen. The deal is great for New York  and the commute to Manhattan will be roughly 25-30 minutes. Not bad. The station is only 10-15 minutes walk from the house, but there is a bus around the corner. There are several lines from the station including Long Island Railroad. So for Queens I’m not asking for anything else.

I might even like it better than Park Slope. But if that’s the case – well, just have to face life’s harsh realities.

Park Slope, as said .. We had a great time! I like you a lot – but I can’t love you the way you want me to.

On a final note – This is my destiny, this is my purpose of life. This is. All I need.

I [heart] you, New York!